Have you ever felt like that?
I know I have.
Well today I checked on a blogger friend at myinfertilitywoes and she had attached a link to her blogger friend Lily at The infertile mind. Her friend had made an inspirational e book on infertility that can be viewed as a video or a pdf which you can download from her site. It was great. I was so glad I viewed it, and I hope you will too.
Her ebook helped me put in perspective the anger and sadness I had felt regarding my infertility this weekend after I was told I was "still young" and "had plenty of time", and then later when a different person told me to "enjoy this time I had without kids".
While I would've rather these friends hadn't told me these things, there is some truth to what they said.
I am still young, and even if I am old when I have kids, I won't be too old to love them. I may not be a celebrity, but they certainly aren't the only ones who can have kids way past their prime. And I should enjoy the time I have to be with just my husband, I dreamed of this time when we would be able to spend time together as a married couple. And if I only focus on what I don't have I will spoil this time that I do have.
So, if you're infertile and you know it: Blog about it.
That might help.